Some of you are not up to date on this...
My sister was over at my mom's visiting one day last week. They were working on the computer and Jaime was showing mom a few pointers. Mom wasn't sure if she could get back to an address she had previously been to. Jaime showed her how. Guess what Mom found. Apparently, Jerry doesn't know how to erase places he's been on-line and apparently has quite the trail.
Mom says she hadn't seen that much porn in her 52 years of life.
Mom freely admits she and her boyfriend at the time went to see the original "Deep Throat" together at some old movie theater that no longer exists in Downtown Minneapolis. Yet, she was appalled.
She called me and told me she felt betrayed, cheated-on, and disrespected. Then we got into a pornography debate.
Any of you ever debate porn with your mom? Even with mine, it's a bit odd, to say the least. I guess it was more of a discussion.
I felt that unless it was
violent, involved
defecation/
urination, animals or children, I really (personally) don't see too much of a problem. I don't feel that it has anything to do with me. I have my own likes and dislikes. Feel free to ask if you're curious as to what they are, but I don't think I'm going to include them in my post.
My mom seemed to be very confused about the fact that I don't mind porn. Almost like she was thinking to herself, "
Didn't I teach her otherwise?"
"Mom, he's not cheating on you, it's not the same thing."
A week later she found his profile on Hotmatch.com.
"Looking for hot, one-on-one sex with a woman age 25-40." (Jerry's nearly 50.)
Now, Mom's angry! She was sad for a day or two. Then she got hell- bent on moving.
To Oregon.
Oregon? Now I have to deal with all sorts of co-dependant isssues, both mine and mom's alike. She says she won't move without me. Well, I don't want to move to Oregon. If I move it'll be East. "But poo-poo bear, there's lots of old hippies there." (Poo-Poo Bear is a nickname from mom.) Hippies are fine with me and I'm fine with hippies. But I'm not sure this "Mod-punk" wants to steep her tea-bag in it. I'm trying to move to England. England!
Anyways, that's all I got.